also like, if your partner does not want to have sex with you, or as often as you want to, or the way you want to, you can break up with them! like, ideally get over yourself, but if that’s not a possibility, please just break up with them! stop manipulating, pressuring, and outright forcing someone to do things they don’t want! it is selfish and cruel! this is not complicated!

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"I’m awaiting a lover. I have to be rent and pulled apart and live according to the demons and the imagination in me. I’m restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again."

Anaïs Nin, Fire: From “A Journal of Love” The Unexpurgated Diary of Anaïs Nin, 1934-1937”. (via ontheedgeofdarkness)

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paintdeath:

Devon Aoki - Craig McDean

paintdeath:

Devon Aoki - Craig McDean

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i really wish someone had told me this a long time ago, so: 

you do not need an excuse to not have sex.

you do not need an excuse to not have sex.

you do not need an excuse to not have sex. 


Ben Kruisdijk

Ben Kruisdijk

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hestheoriginal:

"Which is annoying."

hestheoriginal:

"Which is annoying."

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A Man Emailed His Wife A Spreadsheet That Logged All The The Times She'd Said No To Sex

birdsy-purplefishes:

coeur-de-porcelaine:

maccahawk:

This is it. This is pretty much the pentacle of male privilege in the U.S. When a husband whole heartedly believes that he is a victim to unfair treatment by his wife because she denied him sex 26 times in a month.  

When a man think his pleasures is more important than a women NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX and since they are married he has every right to her body and by denying him access to her body she is denying him said right. 

He thinks her “excuses” for having sex are also unreasonable. And what are some of those “excuses”?

-She was too tired to have sex.

-She was sick.

-She was too drunk.

-She felt tender (in vaginal region) after having sex the other day.

-They didn’t have enough time because they had somewhere to be. (Which means he was fully prepared to have enough time to get himself off INSIDE his wife while knowing they wouldn’t have enough time for her pleasure)

These are all unreasonable “excuses”

 I saw the Reddit thread, and most people were siding with him because she was committing the unacceptable crime of not having sex with him, and even among those who were more sympathetic were starting with ”he did it in an immature way…BUT” and it’s just so depressing how much people hate women that are not ”fulfilling their purpose” of being fucked by men. 

this is abusive behavior. call it what it is. 

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a-golden-lasso-of-my-own:

Marjane Satrapi, who is (in my humble opinion) a complete bad-ass.

a-golden-lasso-of-my-own:

Marjane Satrapi, who is (in my humble opinion) a complete bad-ass.

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how about for my senior project i write a memoir about my college experience.  it will be titled do you like me or have you just done too much coke? and the first chapter will be about how every guy i’ve known in the past three years has had a copy of infinite jest prominently displayed in his room and none of them have actually finished it. 

digitalcrane:
Digital Crane Photography Instagram: @DizzyCrane

digitalcrane:

Digital Crane Photography
Instagram: @DizzyCrane

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one more year of undergrad and then i never have to pretend to care about herodotus ever again

Joanna Newsom(232 plays)

voidwitch:

"I’ve recoiled from associations with childhood that a lot of reviewers have made and interviewers have made, but one reason is that they tend towards this version of childhood that is innocent and naîve. I do feel a connection with the part, with childhood, in kind of a kind of deeper sense. And I feel a deep connection with that way of thinking, and also the capacity to look things straight on without any taboo, or without any fear. The capacity to look at death like that. And I would even take it further to say that I feel a connection to the part of childhood that makes us morbidly curious you know, the way children wanna see, you know, dead things. They wanna see like, the roadkill, the animals that get hit by a car. You know, drive by it and they crane their necks to look.


And the way that, you know, children sometimes sit up in the middle of the night and allow themselves to think about frightening things, even if they know it will frighten them. It is this boundless receptiveness to every aspect of the world. The ability to feel sadness without being blunted, the ability to feel sadness about all the terrible things without having accumulated a thick skin and a callousedness that makes us not be able to feel the full weight of sadness anymore. I feel a connection to those things.

And I do feel a connection to the way of, sort of, free associating, as well. I think that’s all true. I think it starts when we’re born. I think that the world is not conducive to that way of thinking, and I do think probably doing, not just creative writing, but also just playing and writing music for years is almost like, not to be gross, but it’s almost like keeping a wound open. Like, pulling the scab off over and over again. If it’s an open place, if it’s a fissure between like, the world and me, it’s almost like doing these types of work all my life, I feel like it’s keeping that place open.”

Joanna Newsom, VROP Radio, 2/3/05.

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